Lincoln Vernon “Sweet Pea” Daw-Gaw-Moy Aitson, Sr.

Lincoln Vernon “Sweet Pea” Daw-Gaw-Moy Aitson, Sr., age 79, went to his heavenly home to be with his Savior and Lord Jesus Christ on March 3, 2026. His life was a journey marked by faith, service, love for his family, and dedication to his community and people.
Lincoln was born on August 13, 1946, in Lawton, Oklahoma, to Amos Aitson, Sr. and Lucille Tsalote Aitson, “Ms. Eagleheart.” He was given the Kiowa name Daw-Gaw-Moy, meaning “has many kills,” a name that carried meaning within his Kiowa heritage. Lincoln was raised in Carnegie, Oklahoma, where he attended public schools and spent his early years surrounded by family and community.
Lincoln answered the call to serve his country. On August 18, 1967, he enlisted in the United States Marine Corps and completed basic training at Camp Pendleton Recruit Depot in San Diego, California. During his service, he held the rank of Private (E-1) and worked as a radio dispatcher and field operator. He served during the Vietnam era and was recognized for his service with several honors, including the National Defense Service Medal, the Vietnam Service Medal with one star, the Vietnam Campaign Medal with Device, and the Rifle Marksman Badge. After faithfully serving his country, he was honorably discharged on January 9, 1973.
Family was always a central part of Lincoln’s life. On August 26, 1964, he married Maxine Gouladdle-Aitson at White Church in Carnegie, Oklahoma. Together they raised three children. The years later, Lincoln married Sharon Stone-Aitson on April 6, 2012, at Sonny Ware’s church in Anadarko, Oklahoma.
Lincoln was a hardworking man who took pride in his work. He owned and operated his own business, Aitson Construction, where he used his skills to help build and improve his community. He was very instrumental in the construction of the modern-day Kiowa Tribal Complex, leaving a lasting contribution to the Kiowa Tribe.
His leadership and dedication to his people were also evident in tribal service. In 1983, Lincoln became the youngest appointed Kiowa Housing Commissioner for the Kiowa Tribe. He also served on the Board of Economic Development, helping guide efforts to strengthen opportunities and development for the tribe.
Faith was the foundation of Lincoln’s life. His walk with Christ began when he was just 15 years old at White Church. From that time forward, his life reflected a deep commitment to ministry and service. He was one of the founders of United Tribes for Christ Fellowship, where he served as Vice President and as a member of the Board of Elders for many years. Lincoln also served as pastor of Red Church. Beyond leadership roles, he quietly served in humble ways, volunteering his time to mow the yards of local Native churches, always willing to help wherever he was needed. Lastly he started a bible study group called “The House of Prayer”. One of his last statements was “The Most Important Thing in MY Life is my bible study group.”
Outside of his work and ministry, Lincoln enjoyed the outdoors and friendly competition. He was well known in men’s fast-pitch softball for his remarkable pitching ability and was considered a champion pitcher for many different tribal teams over the years. When he wasn’t on the softball field, he enjoyed hunting deer and elk, spending time in the outdoors.
Lincoln leaves behind a large and loving family who will carry on his memory and legacy. He is survived by his children: Lincoln Vernon Aitson, Jr. and wife Amber of Carnegie, Oklahoma; Birdie Charmae Aitson of Carnegie, Oklahoma; Mindy Yellowtail and husband Johnny Cowley of Wyoming; Samuel Otis of Carnegie, Oklahoma; and all of his adopted children. He also leaves behind 14 grandchildren and 17 great-grandchildren who were a special joy in his life.
He is also survived by his brothers and sisters: Cora Lou Aitson “Chalepah,” Amos Aitson, Jr., Edgar Allen Aitson, Jalaine Marie Aitson, Imogene Honey-Lynn Aitson, and Robin J. Eagleheart Aitson. And Special Brothers, Ronny Two-Hatchet, Jose Lucero, and Randall Ware. He is survived by his Aunt Carrie Horse and his Uncle Louis, Debbie Poorbuffalo, Sr., and Special Aunt Sara Poorbuffalo along with many extended family members and loved ones.
Lincoln was preceded in death by his wife, Maxine Gouladdle-Aitson; his granddaughter, Tameka Ashley Diane Pixley; his parents, Amos Aitson, Sr. and Lucille Tsalote Aitson “Ms. Eagleheart”; his Aunt Emma Lee Aitson-Unap; his Uncle Joseph James Aitson, Sr.; his baby brother, Joshua Aitson; and his Special son, Lance Nahquaddy.
Lincoln’s life touched many people through his faith, leadership, hard work, and kindness. He will be remembered as a devoted servant of God, a proud Kiowa man, a Marine, a hardworking builder, and a loving father, grandfather, brother, and friend. His legacy will live on in the hearts of his family, his community, and all who were blessed to know him.
Isaiah 65:24 KJV:
And it shall come to pass, that before they call, I will answer; and while they are yet speaking, I will hear.
Visitation was from 3-8 p.m., Sunday, March 8, 2026, and from 1-5 p.m., Monday, March 9, 2026, at Ray & Martha’s Funeral Home, Carnegie, Oklahoma. 
A Wake was held from 6-8 p.m., Monday, March 9, 2026, at Red Buffalo Hall, Carnegie, Oklahoma. 
Funeral services were held at 10 a.m., Tuesday, March 10, 2026, at Red Buffalo Hall, Carnegie, Oklahoma.
Interment was in the Saddle Mountain, Mountain View, Oklahoma.
Services were under the direction of Ray & Martha’s Funeral Home, Carnegie.